Friday 4 June 2021

MATRUBAI'S MUSINGS FROM HOSTIPAL BED


Laying on a Hospital Bed, I could write a Tragic Story as to why me?
I don't smoke
I don't drink
I don't eat non veg
I maintain a strict diet
But, fate is like that..It can be very cruel. Thankfully, it has given me another shot at life so hence I thought why not write things which I have learned from the Hospital Bed

We, the Investment Solutions Field,  are always tuned to be ready for ANY emergency and keep telling our clients the same.
But, when that Emergency hit ME, it was nothing of a shock.
What started with a small pain in Chest led to a "just to be safe" check-up....one thing led to another and lo! within a couple of days my Heart was injected with STENT!
Life can change in a jiffy!
Laying on the Hospital Bed, I observed many things which gets connected with our Financial Plans and here are some of those musings.

1. GOOGLING!
As I came down after climbing the Tirumala Hills, I didn't have discomfort but the next morning, immediately after breakfast...I started feeling Stomach Heavy and a very light Chest Pain.
I asked the ISKCON people for guidance and they guided me to the REDDY & REDDY colony.
Now, this Reddy & Reddy Colony has about 1200 buildings and every single building (repeat, every single building) consists of
1. An Hospital or
2. A clinic or
3. Diagnostic Centre or
4. Medical Shop or
5. Ayurvedic Centre
et al........every single building had some kind of a connect with Health! Never ever seen or heard of anything like this before.
Finally, went to the Doctor recommended by the ISCKON people. The Doc immediately did an ECG, gave a tablet and said "Mr.Srikanth, you can go back to Bangalore now..but do get a complete check-up done there".
And I was off!

CONNECTING WITH INVESTMENTS :
With so many many doctors, hospitals, I could have easily lost my place and gone any kind of a quack but thankfully I chose the one recommended by ISKCON and thus landed safely in Bangalore.
Likewise, there are so many many funds, you could easily choose A WRONG FUND and lose your capital forever. Its best to stick to a Advisor and his choices

2. NAMAZ AND PRAYER :
As I was waiting for my turn for the check up, the Doctor was examing two friends and said "Tum Muslim Ho? To Roz 5 Baar Namaz Karna Padega...Ise Dil mazboot ho ga" ("You are a MUslim? Then you have to do 5 times Namaz....this will make your Heart Strong)
and turning to his friend said "Tum Jesus Ko sirf Sunday Yaad karne se kuch nahi hoga....Har Roz Pray Karna Padega" (Remembering Jesus only on Sunday isnt enough...pray daily)
Wow!
This is  TRUE SECULAR INDIA. A Hindu Doctor....she could have talked about Bhagwad Gita but she did what is good for patient and will ACTUALLY FOLLOW.
Bravo!!!!!

CONNECTION :
When an Advisor gives you advise to invest in Emergency Fund or an Insurance....he is interested in YOUR growth.
Some advisors may not be able to effectively communicate but you as Investors have to get the INTENT behind the advise and follow them.


3. PRAYING FOR SOME MORE TIME:
Right opposite my bed lay a 60+ patient and throughout the night he used to call out to God "Hey Prabhu....Sirf 6 maine Aur de do....Phir mujhe Utha lena" (Give me just 6 more months and later take my life)!!!
While the matter is definitely sad, its also comical that almost every person on a death bed has the similar prayer. Just step back and try to recollect...isnt it??
Now, at least in terms of financial goals, we can be PREPARED for such eventuality.
Expecially, good Advisors ensure that they underpromise and overdeliver.
Meaning...if a goal requires say about 25 lakhs....advisors tend to play safe and provide for 20% back up at 30 lakhs which a Self Advised (Direct Investor) will not.
Even in terms of returns too, more or less same pattern is observed.
So, at least Financially, a Good Advisor will ensure that you are prepared for any Eventuality/Goal much ahead of its actual requirement.


4. 2 Patient, 1 Attender
Each patient was allowed a personal attender (family member/friend).
My wife revealed that she observed that 2 Patients in another ward had only 1 single attendee!
Now, this attendee had a tough time managing to look after both the Patients (husband and brother) all at the same time...be it feeding the patients, bathing...all  in that limited time period. She was not able to concentrate on either of the patients fully. Sad.
Takeaway :
2 takeaways actually.
1. Have seen many investors have 2 or 3 advisors "just to be safe". this is ridicilous!! Stick with 1 Good Advisor and it should be fine otherwise you will only be confusing not only your yourself but even your advisors.
2. Have seen many investors invest in funds suggested by a Good Advisor with small amount and then going DIRECT and invest BIG to save expenses. Another bullshit idea!
Its a Plain PAISA WISE RUPEE FOOLISH strategy. The Calculations, et al could go for a toss and you could well land up in a mess.
Stick to 1 Good Advisor and he will guide you to your Goals.

5. HELP FROM ALL
Thankfully, almost the entire hierarchy of the Hospital were known to me.  (Some of them were my investors, some friends, and most importantly, some close relatives).
This ensured that I was looked after well and extreme care was taken to ensure that I recovered as quickly as possible.

When it comes to investments, it makes sense to have all kinds of asset classes and all kinds of funds in your portfolio.
Your portfolio should be truly diversifed!!!
Depending on the risk profile and time horizon, you need to have an
Equity Fund (inevitable)
Debt Fund
Balanced Fund
Liquid Fund
Gold Fund
Small Cap, Mid Cap, Large Cap
this ensures that when the time comes, each and every single fund will ensure that you are SAFE truly.

6. Insurance
My Health Insurance ensured that the LEAST of worry for my family was the HOSPITAL BILL.
I had myself sufficiently covered from my health Insurance from APOLLO MUNICH.
the claim was settled cashless and my family did not even have to call any Apollo person.
What this means is.....any expenses spent on Insurance is NOT A WASTE OF MONEY.

Finally, if you have observed, in the beginning of the article I have mentioned about a CHECK UP....
Due to this Checkup...the problem was deducted and my life was saved.
Similarly, do not wait for a Financial Emergency to hit you and then go running to a Good financial Architect.....do it right now!
The earlier the better for your portfolio to get corrected and help you achieve your goals.

All those GET WELL wishes, you people have sent, will surely make GOD think twice of sending me to an hospital purely for the large number of wishes.
God will surely envy my well-wishers.
Thank you friends.






All the best,
Regards,
Srikanth Matrubai
MUTUAL FUND DISTRIBUTOR
REBALANCE VOLATILITY CERTIFIED COACH
Srikanth Matrubai, Author of the Amazon Best Seller DON'T RETIRE RICH


         
Srikanth Matrubai Author of the Amazon Best Seller DON'T RETIRE RICH

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The secret to SUCCESSFUL MOST SATISFYING Life is following the B.U.G. , the BIG ULTIMATE GOAL



When was the last time you struggled with self-motivation?

It is a common challenge.

Clients do not reply on time...Motivation goes down

Family does not understand you...Motivation goes down

Sensex went down yesterday….Motivation goes down

 

How to overcome this?
How to keep yourself motivated?
Read so many books on motivation but still the spark is missing

Saw so many videos on YouTube, but the interest is only for a few moments….

True?

Today I will share you the SECRET of how to keep yourself motivated throughout your life in the easiest way.

 

the BEST way to motivate yourself is...

WRITE DOWN YOUR GOALS once in a while…. Preferably every Monday

 

NO! I am not telling you to write your TO-DO list

You should write your GOALS .... and I want you to write the not the normal goals that almost everyone has and you too will obviously have, write the BIG ULTIMATE GOALS

We call it the BUG

 

it’s not about having a BIG HOUSE or having 5 CRORE in bank

It’s the

BIG ULTIMATE GOALS

 

Like for example what I write

 

1. Setting up a FREE SCHOOL for the underprivileged

 

2. donating 1 crore every year for feeding the hungry


3. Donating all my shares in my Demat account to Lord Venkateshwara's TTD Demat Account ! (Yes...that's my goal) 

 

even a seemingly smaller goal for others could be a BIG ULTIMATE GOAL for me

 

for example, my goal no.3 is a pretty simple small one but one which gives me good satisfaction…

 Being a GREAT HUSBAND and finding new ways to keep my wife and happy and surprised every day

 

What I told just now.... are MY GOALS

 

How about you?

 

Why not have a BIG ULTIMATE GOAL of getting helping 1000 orphan children complete their education?

Why not?

Is it difficult?

No..not at all

Well, truth be told, goals that are not written are not as powerful as goals that ARE written.

Once we have the Big Ultimate Goal in our vision, the doors will automatically open for us to achieve them and all the other goals like having 1 crore in bank

Own house,

Foreign vacation

All these will happen by default, and you will not even have to break a sweat

 

FOR EXAMPLE.
Suppose you are going from Bangalore to Tirupati and the aim is to reach Tirupati by 2pm

When you reach Tirupati, you will never realise when you crossed KR Puram, Malur, Kolar, etc. because your focus was on the bigger picture of reaching Tirupati.

Exactly, the same way when you have this Big Ultimate Goal staring you week after week…. all your monetary financial goals will look small and you will achieve them by default and you will not even realise when you achieved them and moved ahead!

 

Once you have the B.U.G in you,

You will develop

1.    An Open Mind

2.    A Positive Attitude

3.    A broader vision

4.    Deeper analytical skills

5.    Fresh insights into solving day to day problems

6.    You will become Pro-active

7.    You will learn to DELEGATE the smaller works and focus on the Big ones

8.    Develop Empathy

9.    Gradually leave and avoid Bad Habits and Wrong People

10. And most importantly, you will start focusing on your

11. MENTAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH because now your DNA is completely besotted with DNA and wants to reach that B.U.G.


Once you have this Big Ultimate Goal, your entire life will get transformed. You will become a changed person (for the better)
Understanding this Big Ultimate Goal will force you to take massive positive action and you will end with hugely superior result in life.


You ask anyone….anyone….

your friend, your staff, your boss, your life partner…..

anyone about their life goals
they will invariably say….


Own House, then ?


Big Car, then ?


crores in bank, then ?


foreign travel, then ?

you keep asking them….
then ?
then?
then?
after all these….ultimately, they will come to one goal. That is GIVING BACK TO SOCIETY

Yes!

That’s the point. The satisfaction, the contentment that one gets by GIVING BACK TO SOCIETY is incomparable and that’s why the B.U.G. should ideally be GIVING BACK TO SOCIETY

Let us face it: you & I are busy people.

 

When we write down our goals every week (Preferably every Monday), it forces us to focus on the future, rather than the past resentments.

 

As millionaires & billionaires, we do not focus on our past, we live in the present and focus on the future.

 

I encourage you to start writing down your goals every day from now.

 

In fact, take a pen & paper and write down your top 5 goals.

 

That is how you get & STAY motivated every day.

 

Follow the BIG ULTIMATE GOAL and the incredible life you will have.


That does not mean you should not have small charitable goals. 
You must definitely have them. 

Continue doing volunteer seva at the temple, orphanage, old age home, 

Continue donating to that NGO

Continue donating to the PM Cares

Continue doing Narayana Seva

Continue what you are doing but dont miss the BIG picture. 
You must have a big huge massive GOAL in mind. 
Talk to your life partner...
ask them what their BIG ULTIMATE GOAL is...
Both of you together work towards achieving them 

and them the intense contentment, satisfaction that you will have in life. 

 

Let me know your BIG ULTIMATE GOAL in the comment section below.

Once you do achieve the BIG ULTIMATE GOAL in life…then when the death comes calling, you will have a smile and satisfaction of having done something worthwhile during your stay on this planet!

Don’t forget your BUG and don’t forget to thank me when you achieve super success in life!

All the best















All the best,
Regards,
Srikanth Matrubai
MUTUAL FUND DISTRIBUTOR
REBALANCE VOLATILITY CERTIFIED COACH
Srikanth Matrubai, Author of the Amazon Best Seller DON'T RETIRE RICH


         
Srikanth Matrubai Author of the Amazon Best Seller DON'T RETIRE RICH

Do read the book and give your valuable feedback and request you to post positive comments on Amazon. https://amzn.to/3cHUM6M/ 

You can purchase the book on Amazon and Flipkart 

For the best of ideas on where to invest to create Mountains of Wealth 
join my TELEGRAM channel
WEALTH ARCHITECT
    https://t.me/joinchat/AAAAAELl4KUnaJzi-JJlDg/

MATRUBAI'S MUSINGS FROM HOSTIPAL BED

Laying on a Hospital Bed, I could write a Tragic Story as to why me? I don't smoke I don't drink I don't eat non veg I maintain ...